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What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 01:10 PM
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Jpurdue
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It's graduation party season. What's the best advice you ever got? What's the best advice you'd give to a recent graduate?
"Bragging may not bring happiness, but no man having caught a large fish goes home through an alley." -A.L. www.LunkerLore.com
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194563
06/24/19 01:12 PM
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PondFish
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194568
06/24/19 01:14 PM
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Jpurdue
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I think mine would be. "Don't sweat the small stuff. It's all small stuff."
"Bragging may not bring happiness, but no man having caught a large fish goes home through an alley." -A.L. www.LunkerLore.com
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 01:16 PM
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BCBassCat
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194573
06/24/19 01:20 PM
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Scagnetti
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The Lord loves a workin man and dont trust whitey
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 01:23 PM
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RedRanger
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The Lord loves a workin’ man and don’t trust whitey
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194578
06/24/19 01:26 PM
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cocodrie
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My granddad told me once I got my first real job that I need to get 10k in savings, put 10% of my paycheck to the 401k, right away, don't even act like you ever had it, you won't miss it, and before you start doing stupid stuff to your vehicles like lifts and sound systems, it better be paid off. All those years later, these were the best things I ever did.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 01:27 PM
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RATZ
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My granddad told me once I got my first real job that I need to get 10k in savings, put 10% of my paycheck to the 401k, right away, don't even act like you ever had it, you won't miss it, and before you start doing stupid stuff to your vehicles like lifts and sound systems, it better be paid off. All those years later, these were the best things I ever did. our granddads sound alike
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 01:42 PM
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Ghost4BH
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My granddad told me once I got my first real job that I need to get 10k in savings, put 10% of my paycheck to the 401k, right away, don't even act like you ever had it, you won't miss it, and before you start doing stupid stuff to your vehicles like lifts and sound systems, it better be paid off. All those years later, these were the best things I ever did. How does he feel about the LED lights in the wheel wells you have on your truck?
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194597
06/24/19 01:44 PM
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cocodrie
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He's rolling over in his grave
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194606
06/24/19 01:53 PM
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Indianation65
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College graduate--forget just about every "political ideology" that any college professor tried to embed in his/her brain. Then, decide exactly what he/she wants to do, and plan out the steps to get there. The quicker a person decides, the faster he/she will achieve.
High school graduate--do NOT listen to any "political ideology" than any college professor tries to embed in his/her brain. Then, get a job, pick a college but make sure you remind professors your are their to learn subjects A, B or C, and NOT be bombarded by political ideology or join the military for 2 years.
Addendum: A college graduate may want to travel for 6 months to a year if "$$$" allows for it, but not the same for a high school graduate. They are still too young to see the globe.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194610
06/24/19 01:56 PM
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T Bird
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Join the military and learn what it means serve.
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Okie by birth, Texan by choice. USAF "Thunderbirds" Alumni 1985-1989
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194617
06/24/19 02:00 PM
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bronco71
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next step in the journey.....move out
1987 Nitro MX185/Mercury Black Max 150 1999 Triton TX21/225 Mercury Optimax
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194618
06/24/19 02:00 PM
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Tin Star Cajun
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I tell kids today that find their passion then look at the crossroads to that job/career. For example, if they like to cook; they could flip burgers or be a chef-the difference is a little more education and a bigger paycheck. If they like law, they could be a court reporter or a lawyer-the difference, again, is education and a bigger paycheck. But, if at all possible, be your own boss and start your own company. Owners work harder and get the most benefits. My 2nd career I did that and glad I did (private investigation business). (my 1st career was in law enforcement and I would do that again too!)
The only difference between a little girls scream and a warrior's battle cry is the direction your'e running!
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194623
06/24/19 02:03 PM
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CCBIRDDOGMAN
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Don't s#!t where you eat.
2 Bedroom Lake house on CC for rent. P.M. me!
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194635
06/24/19 02:19 PM
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bill oxner
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Pledgerism. That's a line from a movie called The Graduate.
The birds and the guides follow mr out
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194644
06/24/19 02:23 PM
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Bob Davis
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I wouldn't give any advice, unless it was asked for. Even then, they probably wouldn't listen.
Foxtrot Juliet Bravo
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194645
06/24/19 02:23 PM
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CCTX
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From Coach John Wooden
1. Promise yourself that you will talk health, happiness, and prosperity as often as possible.
2. Promise yourself to make all your friends know there is something in them that is special and that you value.
3. Promise to think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best in yourself and others.
4. Promise to be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.
5. Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.
6. Promise to forget the mistakes of the past and press on to greater achievements in the future.
7. Promise to wear a cheerful appearance at all times and give every person you meet a smile.
8. Promise to give so much time to improving yourself that you have no time to criticize others.
9. Promise to be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit trouble to press on you.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194650
06/24/19 02:24 PM
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Ghost4BH
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Pledgerism. That's a line from a movie called The Graduate. Is Pledgerism a condition where you recite the pledge 24/7?
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 02:39 PM
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Mark Perry
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That its OK not to have all the answers at 22. Reality is you will not have them at 42 or 62 either.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194679
06/24/19 02:44 PM
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Nickbyrd
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If you dont like manual labor go to school ...
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194695
06/24/19 02:57 PM
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Hog Jaw
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Get up early every morning .
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194696
06/24/19 02:57 PM
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rj74955
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Pledgerism. That's a line from a movie called The Graduate. Is Pledgerism a condition where you recite the pledge 24/7? He definitely didn't steal that word from anyone.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 03:00 PM
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Frenzy
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If you want your dreams to become reality, start by dreaming about toast or something.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194701
06/24/19 03:07 PM
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DI
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Strippers don't make good girlfriends
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194704
06/24/19 03:14 PM
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GIG'EM AGGIES
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Don't expect to be motivated by motivation and never pass up an opportunity to shut up.
I am a Senager. (Senior teenager) I have everything that I wanted as a teenager, only 50 years later. I get an allowance every month. I have PU truck and a bass boat, I am blessed. Conscience never acquits, it either accuses or excuses.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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#13194711
06/24/19 03:18 PM
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PondFish
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Pledgerism. That's a line from a movie called The Graduate. You got the line, but didn't realize it was a joke? And this..., Strippers don't make good girlfriends
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 04:50 PM
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UGLYSHCTICK
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wrap it before you tap it.
Just want to make folks smile, and spit coffee on their keyboard.
If you put beans in your chili, you don't know beans about chili.
God doesn't create temporary people, you will spend eternity somewhere. Choose wisely.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 05:30 PM
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Near Nuthin'
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Enjoy the ride, but don't forget to plan for the future.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 06:31 PM
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hopalong
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people, people, stay away from the brown acid!
" Hop, set the hook"! hopalong 99,999 TexDawg 99,999 FJB! not my president by a long shot!
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 07:14 PM
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Flymeister
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Birth - Death...you had better make the best of the dash because it's the only thing you can control. https://youtu.be/zsY6UrFIsNs
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 07:57 PM
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My advice would be to participate in pledgerism.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 08:05 PM
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TBS
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The world does not owe you anything, work hard and earn what you want, it will always mean more to you.
Money can't buy you happiness, but the lack of money can cause you much unhappiness.
Learn from your mistakes and enjoy your successes.
Don't dwell on negative things.
Start saving now for retirement.
There will always be another ball game, another day to work, another day to mow the yard....but the days being able to sit and play with your children are very limited.
Be Happy.
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"I Ain't Often Right But I've Never Been Wrong"
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 09:12 PM
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Don't be afraid to JUMP....most people sit safely and take the conservative route. Every failure....and there will be plenty is a step closer to success. And there is no better time than when your young and bolder. Like...what do you have to loose...your house? car?
JUMP DAMMIT
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/24/19 09:48 PM
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Pilothawk
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KANSAS JAYHAWK BASKETBALL - Where tradition comes from 2008 NATIONAL BASKETBALL CHAMPIONS-ORANGE BOWL CHAMPIONS 2008 52 Conf Champs /5 Nat'l Champs
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 01:34 AM
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LoneStarSon
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If you got time to lean, you got time to clean....
Nobody will work harder for you, than you....
Don't spend a lot of money on things that will not appreciate...
Take a course in budgeting...
It's always almost Friday...
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 11:30 AM
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Roller22
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Wealth is not determined by how much a man spends but rather how much he saves.
I Thes. 5:16-18
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 11:59 AM
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Regardless of what mommy and daddy says...you cannot be whatever you want to be. Find your talent and make a living. Pay your taxes and vote.
“Do not pray for easier lives. Pray to be stronger men.” -JFK
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 12:11 PM
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Okie Poke
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No matter where ya go, there ya are....so don't get in too big of hurry.
😎 Dallas Cowboys....eventual Superbowl Champions 😎
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 03:28 PM
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Leonardo1
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I try to encourage graduates to become a person to the professor and not a number. Even if you understand the content, schedule an appointment, make something up and go make them think you care. I also elaborate that the amount of time they are about to have will allow for all of their activities. Many kids are going from attending school 8am to 330pm plus whatever they do extra such as sports, band, ag, ect 20 to 25 hours a week in college will put you in a position to be successful. Use the other 40 your awake for whatever you want or get a job.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 05:00 PM
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lconn4
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Eat more Chinese food. Best bang for the buck.
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 05:14 PM
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birddogcatfish
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The rule of 3 Ps
Dont get your P and your paycheck at the same place
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/25/19 08:17 PM
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blooper961
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/26/19 12:01 AM
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Kentucky
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Re: What advice would you give?
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06/27/19 11:22 PM
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Slow Drifter
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My dad once told me, "There are three things in life that can make a grown a** man do almost anything. Fear, money, and p****y. You control them or they'll control you." He also sent me exactly one letter when I was in Marine Corps boot camp. It was a long letter, but it contained the encouraging advice at the time, "Remember, you're no worse than the man in front of you, and no better than the man behind you." He was a former Marine himself and knew of what he spoke.
SD
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