Two different things you need to consider here. First is the current load you need to get moving. It sounds to me like you have hit that discomfort point where it is time for something to happen. Switch from drinking water to apple juice, and mix in Mirolax once or twice a day until it happens. One hour you will feel like your abdomen is full up to your chin, then the next hour you will feel a literal downward movement. When that happens, clear the wife and kids out of the house for about an hour. Have a plunger and some baby wipes handy, and get after it. Just for fun, weigh yourself before and after and post your results.

Second point of concern is going forward after the big clean out. I'd highly recommend Metamucil. This is not really a laxative in that it doesn't necessarily make you go. It just loads up everything in a moving van as opposed to one carload at a time. I take two tablespoons nightly between dinner and bedtime. Get the sugar free variety because nobody needs to add more sugar on a nightly routine. Also the Costco brand saves you a ton of money.

All that said - if you get to 5 or 6 days without your initial movement, you probably need to seek medical attention. Be warned, the first attempt to cure is called manual disimpaction. Use your imagination, and you won't be far off reality. Find a tiny doctor with thin fingers.

for about the last 90 days it has been bad, horrible, words can't even describe. I have tried EVERYTHING with little to no relief. If you have a secret cure I am listening. I go see a GI Dr on the 31st but that's a LONG ways away. It's getting to the point where I can only sleep a couple hours per night.