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 Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: ReelBusy]
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11/17/21 10:58 PM
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Brandon Adamcik
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Hormone pellets are your friend Do you put them in a candy dish. timed feeder or what? Very small incision in the top of her butt cheek. Every 4 months. Do not let her miss her scheduled appointment or you’re right back to the chit storm.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: Jpurdue]
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11/17/21 11:08 PM
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Pat Goff
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Divorce is roughly equivalent to non-fatal cancer in my mind. Unless you are recently married it is enormously expensive financially, devastating emotionally, and ultra hard on kids. Not to mention you'll spend the rest of your life explaining the mess. It is usually easier and cheaper just to fix the problem at home.
Maybe your wife is crazy and a completely different person, or maybe this is just a season she is going through. I highly recommend seeing a counselor. Get the right one and these folks can be miracle workers. If your wife really is the problem here, they'll help her see that without you coming off as the bad guy.
Are your kids out of the house?
The grass is rarely greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it. Why is divorce so expensive????? Because it's worth it. In 2002, the semiconductor industry was taking a big dump and moving to China, I'm scrambling to keep the boat floating, tell the ex, we're gonna need to tighten up, and she'll need to run the house on 10K a month. When I got home from work trip in Mexico, my air boat, dekes, every fishing trophy I had and most of my clothes were cinders in the road.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: TexDawg]
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11/18/21 12:19 AM
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Jpurdue
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Divorce is roughly equivalent to non-fatal cancer in my mind. Unless you are recently married it is enormously expensive financially, devastating emotionally, and ultra hard on kids. Not to mention you'll spend the rest of your life explaining the mess. It is usually easier and cheaper just to fix the problem at home.
Maybe your wife is crazy and a completely different person, or maybe this is just a season she is going through. I highly recommend seeing a counselor. Get the right one and these folks can be miracle workers. If your wife really is the problem here, they'll help her see that without you coming off as the bad guy.
Are your kids out of the house?
The grass is rarely greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it. I’m sure you understand that any person with any issues needs to WANT to fix it, right? That’s not how this particular issue works. They think you are the crazy lunatic and they are perfectly fine, not a good recipe Right, which is why the consoler can help. Very tough for the guy to point it out without immediately losing the battle. Not every marriage is salvageable. Sometimes it's so toxic divorce is the best option. Just advising that very often it can be fixed and spending money on counseling could have a great ROI vs losing half of everything you own. Also as others have pointed out you can very easily go from the frying pan to the fire with the next chick. The great things about forums is you get a lot of opinions and insight. This is my opinion. Advice from a stranger to a stranger over the internet. Mileage will vary. Any way you spin it, I wish bluenitro the best.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: Jpurdue]
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11/18/21 01:30 AM
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I’m sure you understand that any person with any issues needs to WANT to fix it, right? That’s not how this particular issue works. They think you are the crazy lunatic and they are perfectly fine, not a good recipe
Right, which is why the consoler can help. Very tough for the guy to point it out without immediately losing the battle. Any counselor that cares about ROI on their investment in getting degreed/licensed would never point anything out about the wife. They know that if they do, they won’t ever see that couple again and the beast will trash them on social media. Slip the counselor some cash, let them know to put 100% of the blame on you…go to your sessions and embrace the beating. It will all blow over after a half dozen sessions or so.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: Jpurdue]
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11/18/21 03:12 AM
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Douglas J
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Divorce is roughly equivalent to non-fatal cancer in my mind. Unless you are recently married it is enormously expensive financially, devastating emotionally, and ultra hard on kids. Not to mention you'll spend the rest of your life explaining the mess. It is usually easier and cheaper just to fix the problem at home.
Maybe your wife is crazy and a completely different person, or maybe this is just a season she is going through. I highly recommend seeing a counselor. Get the right one and these folks can be miracle workers. If your wife really is the problem here, they'll help her see that without you coming off as the bad guy.
Are your kids out of the house?
The grass is rarely greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it. I’m sure you understand that any person with any issues needs to WANT to fix it, right? That’s not how this particular issue works. They think you are the crazy lunatic and they are perfectly fine, not a good recipe Right, which is why the consoler can help. Very tough for the guy to point it out without immediately losing the battle. Not every marriage is salvageable. Sometimes it's so toxic divorce is the best option. Just advising that very often it can be fixed and spending money on counseling could have a great ROI vs losing half of everything you own. Also as others have pointed out you can very easily go from the frying pan to the fire with the next chick. The great things about forums is you get a lot of opinions and insight. This is my opinion. Advice from a stranger to a stranger over the internet. Mileage will vary. Any way you spin it, I wish bluenitro the best. just get a new boat and fish alot, a new set of clubs and play a lot of golf, a good deer lease and hunt or a side piece and ....
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: Bob Davis]
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11/18/21 05:00 AM
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that 'P' stands for power Exactly. Wars have been started over it. But yet it’s undefeated and hasn’t been scored on. I just relate everything to football. Mine was terrible then about 3 months of peace (not to be confused with piece) and all hell broke out again. WHEN WILL IT END?
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 11:59 AM
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I did some work for a buddy of mine and after biting my tongue for a few day’s, I finally told him, “you’re wife is the craziest nut that I’ve ever met”. Like a raving lunatic kind of nuts. He says, “yeah it’s the menopause, just wait until you get to experience it with your wife”. I told my wife that if she acts like this lady, there would be no divorce cost that would be too high. Feel sorry for you guys that have to deal with them.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 12:15 PM
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 03:04 PM
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 03:35 PM
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Women get way to much of a free pass on this. Some just flat go off the rails.
Lady that worked for my ex years back went bat sh......t crazy, kicked her son that was in Jr. high and husband out of the house with no where to go and kid at school the next day. They had to get a motel room. Next day she was calling her husband like nothing ever happened.
I went through it with my ex, she knew she was off the rails but also knew nothing she could do about it. She went to a shrink trying to get her head right. I said, how about go to a dr. and get your hormones checked. Her answer was that stuff gives you cancer. I had to bail. I didn't want to be around her and she didnt want to be around anyone, she hated the world.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 03:45 PM
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my bedroom was 57.1 degrees last night i did not complain. since it will freeze tonight i'm sure tonight will be colder.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 03:46 PM
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Pat Goff
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: RayBob]
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11/18/21 03:54 PM
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ReelBusy
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Hormone pellets are your friend Do you put them in a candy dish. timed feeder or what? Airsoft ! Personal safety first 
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: Pat Goff]
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11/18/21 04:44 PM
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Divorce is roughly equivalent to non-fatal cancer in my mind. Unless you are recently married it is enormously expensive financially, devastating emotionally, and ultra hard on kids. Not to mention you'll spend the rest of your life explaining the mess. It is usually easier and cheaper just to fix the problem at home.
Maybe your wife is crazy and a completely different person, or maybe this is just a season she is going through. I highly recommend seeing a counselor. Get the right one and these folks can be miracle workers. If your wife really is the problem here, they'll help her see that without you coming off as the bad guy.
Are your kids out of the house?
The grass is rarely greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it. Why is divorce so expensive????? Because it's worth it. In 2002, the semiconductor industry was taking a big dump and moving to China, I'm scrambling to keep the boat floating, tell the ex, we're gonna need to tighten up, and she'll need to run the house on 10K a month. When I got home from work trip in Mexico, my air boat, dekes, every fishing trophy I had and most of my clothes were cinders in the road. I guess mine was not so bad after all. She tried to serve me at work. I would not let the guy past security. I get home and as soon as I pull in the driveway the dude swoops in. Kicks me out of the house, took all my guns to a neighbor, and I have an hour to pack. She hired the best family lawyer in town and told her some made up carp about how I mistreated her son. I think she forgot several things like a good friend of mine was considered the top lawyer in Tarrant County. She thought the house payment included taxes and insurance. When I explained to her lawyer that I did not have an escrow her lawyer agreed that my ex could not afford the house much less buy me out. Somehow I brought her back to earth and we agreed to a settlement.
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Re: Menopause Divorce Clause
[Re: BlueNitro]
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11/18/21 05:40 PM
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This is the most terrifying/depressing post I’ve ever seen on here . I want my blankey ..... and some whiskey !
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