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 Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: COFF]
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02/11/21 04:54 PM
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fishslime
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It’s your fault for posting on facebook. What are you like 14? Facebook strikes again! From some of the posts my wife gets from supposed "friends", it's obvious some have forgotten what friendship is.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: Mudshark]
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02/11/21 05:07 PM
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IC DOAN
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It doesn’t matter who is at fault, she is mad at you and you are trying to use logic to diffuse the situation. Good luck with that. There is much wisdom in these words here...
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: Mudshark]
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02/11/21 05:14 PM
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Duck_Hunter
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It doesn’t matter who is at fault, she is mad at you and you are trying to use logic to diffuse the situation. Good luck with that. Nailed it. Of course it’s not your fault, June, but it will always be your fault in her mind because that’s how they sometimes think.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: Duck_Hunter]
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02/11/21 05:20 PM
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Sawhorse
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It doesn’t matter who is at fault, she is mad at you and you are trying to use logic to diffuse the situation. Good luck with that. Nailed it. Of course it’s not your fault, June, but it will always be your fault in her mind because that’s how they sometimes think. Diagnosis doesn’t matter...prescription matters Duck Hunter. Demonstrating empathy with him is fine, but he’s in desperate need of solutions! “Pretend to be concerned about her feelings about it“ - Dr. Jon
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: RayBob]
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02/11/21 05:41 PM
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BigDozer66
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Your fault.
Como siempre amigo. It is always your fault. Regardless of situation and especially regardless of logic. It is built into the female genetic code. Dr. Jon Dr. Jon nails it here. The male never has a chance of escaping blame. 
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/11/21 06:38 PM
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Popedaddy
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An ex? Ex wife I doubt, or a ex-girlfriend? Lived together girlfriend? Baby mama? If it’s just a girlfriend you were dating back in the day. Yea the wife is a history major apparently, bringing up old stuff. It’s In the past. Eventually, yep your fault.
Smoke on!
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/11/21 07:20 PM
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bassfishinglawyer
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I got off all social media and limit myself now to the THF and TFF - all I can say is my blood pressure is down about 30 points!
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/11/21 07:26 PM
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reeltexan
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Cut with her golden oars the silver stream,
And greedily devour the treacherous bait.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:14 PM
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SoonerDG
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So I made a fb post on a family members post. An ex responded to my post and mentioned me by name , my wife saw it and is upset. Does she have any right to be mad at me? She’s upset my family member would be friends with an ex but surely I can’t be at fault. OT what is your opinion? Just because it's not your fault doesn't mean she's not going to blame you! Surely you've been married long enough to know that!
"Life is a matter of luck and the odds of success are in no way enhanced by extreme caution." - Erich Topp, German U-boat Commander, 1943.
When in doubt, set the hook.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:21 PM
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UGLYSHCTICK
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my 2 cents....
you should have acted angry that, that sorry b!tch commented on your post, and you are going to block her immediately. That would be worth about 75 nookie points.
30 + years married... when the meanest dog barks.... you bark with them, not at them.
Just want to make folks smile, and spit coffee on their keyboard.
If you put beans in your chili, you don't know beans about chili.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:22 PM
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WAWI
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Buy her something nice and tell her to shut up. That's how I handle it.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:24 PM
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John175☮
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I cannot. Privacy act of 1946 You are protected under U.S. Code Title 47, TELECOMMUNICATIONS Chapter 5, WIRE OR RADIO COMMUNICATION Subchapter II, COMMON CARRIERS Part I, Common Carrier Regulation Section 206.
“Do not pray for easier lives. Pray to be stronger men.” -JFK
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:35 PM
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Hook'Em 79
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One of many reasons I am not on fb.
My wife would react the same way and over something petty like this it is not worth it.
Good luck, tell her it's her right to have the jealous feeling but to take it out on you when you did nothing wrong isn't going to happen. You can't control family members and what friends they choose, heck maybe they aren't even friends and the ex just follows someone in your family trying to stay in the know.
Tell the wife to assume positive intent as in most cases that's usually true.
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Re: Who is at fault?
[Re: junbengreat]
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02/12/21 04:42 PM
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Mark C
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Y'all should get one of those cute "couples" accounts.
You are not a good or nice person.
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