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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/07/18 12:54 PM
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jasonslabseeker
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In the end it should really be the parents choice and responsibilities to discipline the child however they see fit Or what the child responds best to.
John 21:3-8
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/08/18 11:01 PM
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DillonCan'tFish
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I always thought my Dad was full of [censored] when he said spanking me hurt him worse than it hurt me. I popped my 1 year old son on the butt for the first time the other night and the look on his face just about crushed me! I just turned and looked away. Luckily, he just quit what he was doing and went about his playing.
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/08/18 11:19 PM
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beartrap
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I think the old adage "spare the rod and spoil the child" certainly applies to some children...as a parent of three children,my kids are probably an example of another adage "most children turn out ok in spite of their raising"..... managed malls for many years prior to retiring and a large percentage of the kids we had problems with had older parents or came from single parent homes....
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: Allison1]
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11/08/18 11:50 PM
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TexasBlonde
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You don't train dogs with pain and slapping. The same with folks. Instead of making choices based on future pain, I would think they would more likely make decisions based on right or wrong if they were given discipline other than hitting them.
What do you think shock collars do to dogs when they train them? I have never used one to train one of our pups, but it does teach the pup if you do the wrong thing, the pup is not going to like the consequence.
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/08/18 11:53 PM
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TexasBlonde
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My mother was mentally ill and out of control. My sister and I hid all the leather belts and she spanked up with one of her plastic belts. We wailed and carried on into the pillow on the bed when she whipped us. Her big thing was to slap you in the face which is why I always said I loved my mother but did not respect her. You do not slap anyone in the face period.
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
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11/09/18 12:31 AM
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TR176
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What about throwing them on ground and kicking them in head? Sicking a pitbull on them has proven more effective.
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/09/18 12:35 AM
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TR176
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
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11/09/18 12:37 AM
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Magged Out
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Proverbs 23: 13-14
I'd Tack That!!
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/09/18 12:49 AM
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deerfeeder
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I took some serious butt whoopin's when I was young. Really resented them, but even then I knew I earned them. Now, I look back and am grateful for them because I firmly believe I was headed for jail at sometime in the future if I wouldn't have wised up to what the folks were telling me.
Yes, spank them if they need it, you are there to be their parent, not their bestest friend. They have tons of those.
Non Sibi Sed Patriae -- "Not for self, but for country."
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: TR176]
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11/09/18 12:58 AM
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BrandoA
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I'm a gringo and I know the la chancla
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
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11/09/18 01:06 AM
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Corporal punishment has always had a place in child raising. Always will. Some children wont behave any other way. Depends on the child and whether or not they will listen and obey when told. Well said
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/11/18 07:03 AM
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Gourdbuster
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Timeout isn't the only alternative, I've delved out pushups, yard work, and even assigned an essay as punishment. Denial of all forms of entertainment except school books for a few days usually works around my house though.
“You are not special. You're not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You're the same decaying organic matter as everything else. We're all part of the same compost heap. We're the all singing, all dancing [censored] of the world.”
-Chuck Palahniuk
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
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11/11/18 01:45 PM
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Nickbyrd
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What about throwing them on ground and kicking them in head? Sicking a pitbull on them has proven more effective. Doesnt work Ive tried
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: TexasBlonde]
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11/11/18 03:42 PM
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Uncle Zeek
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My mother was mentally ill and out of control. My sister and I hid all the leather belts and she spanked up with one of her plastic belts. We wailed and carried on into the pillow on the bed when she whipped us. Her big thing was to slap you in the face which is why I always said I loved my mother but did not respect her. You do not slap anyone in the face period. Whipping, slapping, and beating a kid are way above and beyond spanking for discipline. I agree that the former is not ok. And I'm sorry that you and your sister had to endure that.
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Re: Spanking Harms Children
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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11/11/18 04:05 PM
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JCG57
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My favorite punishment for my kids was to send them to the patio to pull grass an weeds growing between the pavestones until they reached whatever quota I had set. More productive than just a timeout.
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