There is likely more to it than just a video on the phone. Not cool to be having that stuff when married unless both agree. If he's hiding it, Houston, we have a problem.

They need to start a KIK group on Craigslist and invite a few more friends over

I'll send him a text, make it look like a knock-knock joke. I know she wont read that. She hates my jokes..

Knock-knock.
who's there?
your wife found your spank bank.

My wife wouldn't even break a sweat for stuff like that. She doesn't care where I get an appetizer as long as I'm home for dinner.

Be da "Man" and tell the other wife OFF!

It worked in "Whipped" topic!

...go Man Power!

Reverse Addendum, bottom Pager: I hope the previous line is taken correctly! Doh!

ask him to lunch and tell him then.

Also if she found p[ix/video of him and some chick (since they have been together) then he is in the wrong regardless if she was snooping through his phone. If it was just in his browser history that he watched some off a website then meh.

For those who think you need a password on your phone that your wife doesn't know, I don't get hiding stuff from your wife.

was this a naughty video that another woman sent him? or just something he had downloaded?

either way, I'd tell him for sure.

My wife won't open my wallet or my cellphone. She has set boundaries for herself. I won't go in her purse. Neither of us hide anything from the other. She knows my codes, I know hers.

He needs to set her boundaries after he gets back his man card.