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Good Ketchin Bad Day
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08/16/14 01:44 PM
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Jcazjr
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Went fishing at community lake on Josey Lane in Carrollton about a mile north of the George Bush. Caught some nice size bluegill, and my young daughter was having a great time. That was until some nuckleheaded racist decided to drive by and yell out some very nasty things to us. Being a dark skinned Hispanic, and having served in the ARMY, and 28 years as a Police Officer, my skin is pretty thick. But to show such hatred towards a child, is just a crime against Jesus. I have taught my daughter to base her feelings about people, by their actions, and not skin color. This incident gave me another opportunity to again teach her about forgiveness, even though it came by her being terrorized.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10215655
08/16/14 01:52 PM
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banker-always fishing
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Hate to read about incidents like this.  Remember that everything happens for a reason and that according to the good lord "give thanks to all things".  Sounds like you turned a bad incident into a good learning experience.  Always remember "God has Control"! Side Note: Keep praying and keep fishing! 
![[Linked Image]](http://imagizer.imageshack.us/v2/xq90/823/ycku.jpg) ![[Linked Image]](http://imagizer.imageshack.us/v2/xq90/560/ukw3.jpg) IGFA World Record Rio Grande Cichlid. Lake Dunlap. John 3:16 Sinner's Prayer. God forgive me a sinner. I accept Jesus Christ as my Savior !
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10215666
08/16/14 01:57 PM
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Jcazjr
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Thanks Banker, I need to get back down on Dunlap and bring home some of those giant gills. 
Hawk 1
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10215676
08/16/14 02:00 PM
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Patriot7Six
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Hate to hear this especially with a young one involved but just the fact that they did this driving by shows they are a coward, try not to let it bug you. You are the better person, keep raising your daughter right 
Fight the good fight - 1 Tim. 6:12
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10215682
08/16/14 02:04 PM
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banker-always fishing
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Thanks Banker, I need to get back down on Dunlap and bring home some of those giant gills. Give me a shout if you are ever in my neck of the woods. Would love to fish with ya! 
![[Linked Image]](http://imagizer.imageshack.us/v2/xq90/823/ycku.jpg) ![[Linked Image]](http://imagizer.imageshack.us/v2/xq90/560/ukw3.jpg) IGFA World Record Rio Grande Cichlid. Lake Dunlap. John 3:16 Sinner's Prayer. God forgive me a sinner. I accept Jesus Christ as my Savior !
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/16/14 02:32 PM
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Ketchn
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isn't it a terribly huge shame that due to a difference in pigmentation of ones skin someone could have such a misguided approach to life . i would like to take the time to apologize for the person who did this . its rather obvious that individual needs help on many levels . hopefully your daughter is old enough to understand the world is full of individuals who are not good at being humans . what a sad addition to a rather perfect day of kethcn fish with your family i am personally sorry you and your daughter had to endure such behavior and tell her from me ..... NEVERMIND those kind of people , they are always going to be one or more steps behind the "right" kind of people in this world
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10215880
08/16/14 03:40 PM
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Smithaven
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Our world seems to have taken a turn for the worst. I am sorry your little girl was mistreated, and I hope this experience will not turn her away from enjoying the outdoors with you.
![[Linked Image]](http://www.carolineclemmons.com/bluegill.jpg) . Seventy five years of chasing the elusive sunfish.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/16/14 05:35 PM
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Scott in Flower Mound
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For those of us that are Caucasians (or of a different race or color) we should go out of our way to be nice and friendly in these situations. We can't be there to knock the racist idiot to the ground, so the next best thing is to show that little girl, and her family that there is just as much friendship and love in this world to help offset the ugly-hearted people. There is a lot of good in this world, but the good people need to show it more than they do. Help your fellow man when you can. Go out of your way to do something good for others.
Scott
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/17/14 10:27 AM
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Laker One
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There are people out there that are not very smart and it is obvious "Jcazjr" that you ran into one. Keep doing what you are doing, enjoy and making time with your family. I am sure that person has some "MAJOR" problems in his life. Pray for em brother! 
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/18/14 10:29 AM
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Gitter Done
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Don't let one JERK take away a good day with your daughter. Sounds like you made a bad situation into a good learning experience.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/18/14 03:47 PM
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SoonerDG
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I'm sorry to you and your daughter that an insecure moron had to put a black mark on an otherwise awesome day. I'm sure you've done a good job of teaching your daughter that some people are put on this earth soley to serve as a bad example.
"Life is a matter of luck and the odds of success are in no way enhanced by extreme caution." - Erich Topp, German U-boat Commander, 1943.
When in doubt, set the hook.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/19/14 03:04 AM
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jagg
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Sorry that you had a visit from the Ignorant and Loud as we grew up calling them, but congrats on turning a negative into a positive picture. Being a black man and raising multi racial kids in 4 states and 2 countries, I've unfortunately had my fair share of run ins with and without the family in ear shot. Most of the time the speech is slurred and/or otherwise imperceptible so when my kids asked, " what they say?" I normally say, "something stupid". On the rare occasion that they actually understand what's said, I do my best to explain that sometimes people do/say dumb, hateful things. Some more than others. I try not to sour them on humanity too much, but there are times when I can't find glowing answers to advocate on humanity's side for their innocent questions.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
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08/19/14 07:31 PM
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dkite
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You know that not all people out there are that way just brush it off and catch another one.
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Re: Good Ketchin Bad Day
[Re: Jcazjr]
#10223477
08/19/14 11:40 PM
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Dfitz
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That's a real shame. I was always taught to judge a person by their character to the color of their skin, background, religion ect.
Good for you on taking the high road, ignorant people are not worth spit.
Don't worry about the mule, just load the cart
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