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 Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:28 PM
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spankyttx
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i'd plant one seed, whether it grows or not
do not give her any access to your finances
LI-SI-WI-NWI
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:32 PM
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CCTX
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Your wife is a very smart person with good communication skills. Have her talk with him also. She may also be a strong covert op to talk with the lady in question also.
Women tend to excellent at this sort of maneuvering. Men tend to try to solve dilemmas with brute force; but there are times when the more sneaky approach works better.
This may be one of those times. In general, men are not good at being sneaky. My wife is psycho If I were you, I would never try to out strategize her if that is what you mean.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:32 PM
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1ShotNoKills
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There is even concern within our friends group that it could be a ladyboy and we fear he would still go though with it.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: CCTX]
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04/10/25 01:33 PM
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outfishdya
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I am not going to discuss children, or relations prior to marriage that may result in children as that is beyond the scope of the discussion......but, I would never trust anyone to remember to take preventative actions; thus, safety first and that safety step is owned by two people in a relationship.
solid disclaimer here!
Sometimes a bitter man trying to be a better man
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:33 PM
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Sawhorse
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There is even concern within our friends group that it could be a ladyboy and we fear he would still go though with it. 
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:33 PM
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UGLYSHCTICK
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Your wife is a very smart person with good communication skills. Have her talk with him also. She may also be a strong covert op to talk with the lady in question also.
Women tend to excellent at this sort of maneuvering. Men tend to try to solve dilemmas with brute force; but there are times when the more sneaky approach works better.
This may be one of those times. In general, men are not good at being sneaky. My wife is psycho did you meet her before you married her ?
Just want to make folks smile, and spit coffee on their keyboard.
If you put beans in your chili, you don't know beans about chili.
God doesn't create temporary people, you will spend eternity somewhere. Choose wisely.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:33 PM
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:33 PM
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outfishdya
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There is even concern within our friends group that it could be a ladyboy and we fear he would still go though with it.
Sometimes a bitter man trying to be a better man
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: UGLYSHCTICK]
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04/10/25 01:34 PM
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Sawhorse
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Your wife is a very smart person with good communication skills. Have her talk with him also. She may also be a strong covert op to talk with the lady in question also.
Women tend to excellent at this sort of maneuvering. Men tend to try to solve dilemmas with brute force; but there are times when the more sneaky approach works better.
This may be one of those times. In general, men are not good at being sneaky. My wife is psycho did you meet her before you married her ? *meat
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:37 PM
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Well played 1shot. If you can't be sneaky, might as well use a double reverse tactic.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:39 PM
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malibu6501
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If you want to remain friends, then stay out of it.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:41 PM
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outfishdya
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If this friend wont listen to his friend group, maybe this friend has a neighbor that could provide some advice.
Sometimes a bitter man trying to be a better man
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: BassFever]
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04/10/25 01:43 PM
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grandbassslayer
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Pu y makes a man do strange things. This
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:52 PM
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Indianation65
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If' he's determined, and he's distancing himself from people around him, that means "everyone" who cares about him has already tried to convince him to wait, bring her here, get to know her first, don't do this.
He's sick of people trying to talk him out of what he's already decided, and he's decided "he's fallen in love."
What can you do or say?
Nothing now, it's a wait-n-see situation.
Be there to listen if it happens it goes south.
...or, pray for the best and the marriage is a success.
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Re: What Advice Would You Give
[Re: 1ShotNoKills]
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04/10/25 01:53 PM
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gregpaul
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