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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: me and the boys]
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04/21/24 01:56 AM
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grandbassslayer
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This can sound off, rude, mean,,,, whatever,,, the problem is this. Social media makes all these guys act and sound tough. But none of em knows what’s it’s like to get a good ol fashion arse whoopin.
Beat his arse and teach him consequences of messing with your family. He can learn to get along or get out. Yeah committing a felony isn’t going to help this situation- worst.advice.ever.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052633
04/21/24 01:57 AM
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Samsonsworld
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Struggling to keep my world civil. Sure hope we can play nice in this thread.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052644
04/21/24 02:10 AM
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Fishspanker
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If you consider CPS you better be sure of the situation, if your daughter has the children, that there aren't issues with your daughter that CPS will pursue. Personally having dealt with them on a custody issue I would try to stay away from bringing them in. If he had them and you know there are issues with the child’s safety and care then CPS probably is a good way to go.
Record absolutely everything he says. In Texas you can legally record a conversation as long as one party is aware the recording is taking place. Get you and your daughter cheap voice recorders. When recording you need to make sure your side of the conversation is going to be a positive in court. This was absolute gold in my child custody case.
Keep any text messages that help. Be sure you and your daughter keep your side a positive in court.
Search his social media and clip anything useful.
Keep any camera video. Do not redact video or text messages. You can clip out a section but avoid putting clips together for one presentation. A decent attorney could get this thrown out as redacted. You could, be asked if the video or text has sections removed.
When he calls you out that shows his willingness to commit violence.
Do not let him know any of this documentation is ongoing until you have enough to sink him. If he has any sense, once the info comes out, your chance to get more goes down drastically.
I had 239 pages for the child custody and several recordings. One recording of her begging for pot was just crazy good in court.
Sounds like this idiot will provide you with plenty of court gold.
Finally assume he is doing the same to you. Be careful what you say and do. Clean up any Social Media. Don’t get into arguments where you can’t use the evidence because your side is a problem in court. Generally the nicer you are, the crazier and more agressive they get. You want him acting all stupid.
Be honest with yourself about issues your daughter may have. Potentially they could come out.
Get a good attorney and get a court order.
Last edited by Fishspanker; 04/21/24 02:21 AM.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052652
04/21/24 02:23 AM
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Douglas J
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Is it her ex husband and they kids together?
You will find the Texas family court system sucks.
#MFGA
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
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04/21/24 02:37 AM
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Uncle Zeek
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Call me tomorrow. I'm not very experienced in such matters, but if I can get the relevant facts from you, I can try to help you find the right legal help and point you to the right solutions.
Not gonna charge you for a phone consult on this.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Uncle Zeek]
#15052671
04/21/24 02:51 AM
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The Searchers
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Call me tomorrow. I'm not very experienced in such matters, but if I can get the relevant facts from you, I can try to help you find the right legal help and point you to the right solutions.
Not gonna charge you for a phone consult on this. Good on you brother!
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052684
04/21/24 03:38 AM
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txmasterpo
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Paper trail the [censored] out of it....really call everyone....and then on your property do what you need to
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052687
04/21/24 03:45 AM
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RayBob
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Really struggling with what his rights are to the kids. Have to share grand kids after one tells me he lifted her by the head because he was mad. This woulda been the last straw for me. I'm actually astounded he didn't get arrested for this alone despite the multiple trespasses. Rights???? He deserves no rights if this happened and the fact that CPS isn't involved is shocking and you are at risk for legal jeopardy if you know about this lifting the child up in rage by their head and don't report it. You've had some awesome advice in this thread, I hope you take some of it to heart and act ASAP.
Advice? Wise men don't need it. Fools won't heed it.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: RayBob]
#15052688
04/21/24 03:50 AM
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Douglas J
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Really struggling with what his rights are to the kids. Have to share grand kids after one tells me he lifted her by the head because he was mad. This woulda been the last straw for me. I'm actually astounded he didn't get arrested for this alone despite the multiple trespasses. Rights???? He deserves no rights if this happened and the fact that CPS isn't involved is shocking and you are at risk for legal jeopardy if you know about this lifting the child up in rage by their head and don't report it. You've had some awesome advice in this thread, I hope you take some of it to heart and act ASAP. Sadly scumbags love to yell "my rights" when they are s**tty parents and even shi**ier people! The state of the family court system is a joke
#MFGA
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052875
04/21/24 02:05 PM
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Dan21XRS
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Just call the authorities every time he shows like others suggested... You read about these situations in the paper all the time... Dan
"The problem with having a sense of humor is often that people you use it on aren't in a very good mood"... Lou Holtz
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Team Skeeterless]
#15052928
04/21/24 02:31 PM
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butch sanders
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If CPS gets involved Kids go to a foster home Not accurate at all! Unless there is no safe or reliable family for kids to be with they would not go to fosters. How many of these cases have you been involved with?
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052936
04/21/24 02:36 PM
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ReelBusy
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Worked with a guy that shot his daughter's crazy ex dead. He warned the guy if he laid a hand on his daughter he would kill him. He was always a man of his word. The daughter is free of the deadbeat but Chuck did several years for it.
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
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#15052945
04/21/24 02:43 PM
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butch sanders
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If CPS gets involved Kids go to a foster home WRONG, WRONG, WRONG! They only go to a foster home if there is no safe place within the family for them to go. Calling CPS means the offender cannot have access to them but other family members can and they can provide safe haven. I have had to call CPS in regards to students of mine and not one of them has ever gone to a foster home. You do not have a clue what you are talking about. Ahoy seamen Why would a tough guy call in the authorities? I have been involved in 4 of these It never worked out
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Samsonsworld]
#15052946
04/21/24 02:43 PM
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RCarter
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Yes, get Law Enforcement involved asap.....damn shame scum bags like this run rampant
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Re: Toxic ex daughter's bf
[Re: Uncle Zeek]
#15052966
04/21/24 02:58 PM
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banker-always fishing
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Call me tomorrow. I'm not very experienced in such matters, but if I can get the relevant facts from you, I can try to help you find the right legal help and point you to the right solutions.
Not gonna charge you for a phone consult on this. Great advice! Side Note: There have also been some great advice on other post as well! Praying for you and your family.
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