Every loss of a loved one is different. My little brother was murdered in 1986. He was my best friend. I chaperoned him on his first date. We rodeoed together for 16 years. To this day it still hurts. I saw what my family went through as individuals. I found Solis in prayer and talking to my brother after he died. When I needed to clear the mechanism I went and sat alone and updated him on everything. It's been 38 years and I still have talks with him.
The first few weeks after the death of a loved one. We are surrounded by more love then we have ever known. As the weeks go into months others lives go back to normal . But not the person who is suffering. Friends are afraid to call because they don't know what to say or do. They are afraid they will makes us cry. But crying is part of healing. We keep our loved ones alive by talking about them and crying about them. Grief comes in many different forms. God is the best answer to helping others. Family and friends are next. Keep your son busy and don't be afraid to talk about his wife. Cry with your son, laugh with him. That's how we keep them alive. I've had a saying I've used since the day my brother died. As long as he is alive in my heart and soul. He is only gone physically. Prayers for your son and your family.

Every loss of a loved one is different. My little brother was murdered in 1986. He was my best friend. I chaperoned him on his first date. We rodeoed together for 16 years. To this day it still hurts. I saw what my family went through as individuals. I found Solis in prayer and talking to my brother after he died. When I needed to clear the mechanism I went and sat alone and updated him on everything. It's been 38 years and I still have talks with him.
The first few weeks after the death of a loved one. We are surrounded by more love then we have ever known. As the weeks go into months others lives go back to normal . But not the person who is suffering. Friends are afraid to call because they don't know what to say or do. They are afraid they will makes us cry. But crying is part of healing. We keep our loved ones alive by talking about them and crying about them. Grief comes in many different forms. God is the best answer to helping others. Family and friends are next. Keep your son busy and don't be afraid to talk about his wife. Cry with your son, laugh with him. That's how we keep them alive. I've had a saying I've used since the day my brother died. As long as he is alive in my heart and soul. He is only gone physically. Prayers for your son and your family.