After having a Ram Ecodiesel, which I had literally zero problems with, I'd never again own a half ton diesel. The chances of expensive repairs are too high, maintenance/fuel/DEF costs add up too much, and the towing capability on a small diesel is too weak.
I now own a 2500 Duramax. Before that I owned a Ram 1500 Hemi. Both good trucks, and both pulled better than the Ecodiesel, and have less risk of expensive repairs.
If you need good mpg, buy a beater Camry/Accord. But the regular gas motor just makes more sense in a light duty pickup.
Curious patriot, what drove you to the HD duramax? Is it a new one with EGR DPF and SCR or an older pre emission model? I know you already know the modern duramax etc. has the same emissions heartaches as the smaller diesels, just a lot more umph to go with it.
I ended up meeting a guy who is a diesel tech for a pretty big shop around here and his recommendation was a Cummins if you're gonna delete and a Duramax if you're not. He says Chevy's end up with weird electrical problems from time to time, but the expensive emissions fixes are pretty rare. On the flip side, the emissions stuff on the Ram tends to go out a lot more often in his experience and it's often $2k-$4k repair bills to fix it. But if you are gonna delete, he says the Cummins can't be beat.
Also, my towing is quite often cross-country type stuff. High winds are frequent and stability makes a world of difference in towing comfort, and the 2500 just gives a lot more stability when towing a travel trailer than a half ton does.
I should qualify my statement about half ton diesels - it's really for folks like me who are going to be putting 30k+ miles per year on a vehicle. You're just better off buying a Camry and being done with it. Diesel emissions are too problematic, tires, DEF, fuel filters all add up as hefty expenses pretty quickly compared to a sedan, and depreciation on a $30k+ truck happens a lot quicker than a $10k Camry. So I'm really speaking more about my situation which is 97% commuting to work or kids soccer practice or tournaments and 3% towing long distances.
I was pretty disappointed in the Hemi mpg towing, and mine started developing a pretty bad knock right before I sold it. So maybe the half ton gassers are just as problematic as the diesels...who knows. But I think in general, repairs on the gassers are much less expensive. Hopefully that explains my thoughts. I just saw too many threads on the ED forum with crazy expensive repairs and it just doesn't make sense to live with that and the expensive maintenance, and the heavy depreciation, when you can buy a $10k Camry and avoid all of that, and have a heavy duty truck that tows much better. With my Duramax, I have to keep an eye on the speedo or I'll be doing 80 with my 30' TT behind me and not even know it.
I'm tired of swapping trucks though. I had my 2004 Silverado until 2016. I had a 2016 Ram 1500 ED (sold because I realized I needed 4x4 and it was 2WD), then a 2018 Ram 1500 Hemi (sold because it smelled like smoke and I couldn't get it out, and a 2500 just made more sense for a pure towing vehicle), and now the 2019 Silverado 2500, which I plan on keeping for the next 10-15 years like my old 2004.