So it seems this is a pretty common problem with Dodge Rams and this is the second time in 40k miles. The first time a broken bolt couldn't be removed, even after taking the head to a machine shop, requiring me to replace the entire head because of one broken bolt. I am replacing broken exhuast bolts and gasket again and hopefully I can remove the broken bolt this time (fingers crossed).

From what I understand the problem lies with the OEM exhuast header. So I am think about replacing the headers with a aftermarket one like shorty's. My question is has anyone else done this in an attempt to permanently fix this problem and of so, has it worked?

the answer is yes to the shorties and i recommend this anti-seize

88862477 - gm/ac delco anti-seize lubricant

A lot of people use the BBK Manifolds and the exhaust gasket I cant remeber the name of but there USA made and come in a package with purple & whit letering on them.