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Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? #12870408
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So this has seemed to spark a lot of controversy on facebook and at work lately.

A mutual friend posted this on facebook:


My roommate took great offense to it. Her argument was that no matter what a woman looks like it's never OK to slap her on the rear. She went back and forth with this guy on FB until he blocked her.

A coworker said that she wishes the sign on the wall would have included the inverse of the statement as well...that the more you act like a gentleman, the more she'll act like a lady.

When I saw the quote I just agreed with it and didn't see much of an issue. Anything encouraging our kids to act like little ladies and gentlemen is a good thing IMO.

There will always be dumbarses out there who will take any opportunity to get a grab in when they can. You can't get all fluffed up any time someone says or does something stupid. But if you dress appropriately and act responsibly, the number of jackwagons giving you a hard time will significantly decrease.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870409
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my wife has been saying that for years.


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870414
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I'm gonna go with she is asking for it.




Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870439
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One need only look at the treatment of women in countries where they are covered head to toe to know that the thought process involved in abusing women isn't about what they are wearing.


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870442
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Not any middle schooler cares about acting like a "lady" or "gentleman". There probably aren't too many that could even define those words. The statement does put all the responsibility on the girl, and excuses poor behavior from boys...cause she was asking for it.


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They should put something more like.
Hey don't bully a classmate, and you may not get shot.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: RickS.] #12870450
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Although I don't really see anything wrong with this, it could say .. If you don't respect yourself nobody will.


Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else’s.
Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870451
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I would just like to go on record that I support women at the club wearing very little.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870452
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This was being talked about on the radio this morning, and I think most of the controversary is from the quoted author, who is a well known madame or lady of night.


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It goes both ways. I teach my sons, the same thing that my dad tuaght me. That girls are someones sister, someones duaghter, someones future wife. That changed my perspective as a young man and I landed my dream wife years later. Thanks Dad, I miss u.

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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870454
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Doesn't mater how the female acts. We should be above it and be a Gentleman at all times.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: Fishingking] #12870459
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Originally Posted By: Fishingking
Doesn't mater how the female acts. We should be above it and be a Gentleman at all times.


Correct and that signage is akin to victim blaming.

Just saying... It is.


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870460
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Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. You’re roommate is taking the “victim blaming” position. It happens frequently on social media.

Of course it’s not OK to grab a lady’s butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. That’s just reality. That’s not victim blaming, that’s not absolving the butt grabber of his part, that’s just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.

So many people can’t see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything.


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This was addressed in the 1988 movie "The Accused", with Jodie Foster.


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Nobody ever deserves to be robbed. It's inexcusable. That said, it's a bad idea to go walking through East St. Louis at 2am wearing a bunch of gold jewelry.


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Originally Posted By: Jpurdue
Nobody ever deserves to be robbed. It's inexcusable. That said, it's a bad idea to go walking through East St. Louis at 2am wearing a bunch of gold jewelry.


Bingo. There is a reason doors have locks.


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I try not to discriminate.... I'll grab a butt anywhere! roflmao


The things people take personally and get all worked up about these days is just silly...





Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: Tallgrass05] #12870474
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Originally Posted By: Tallgrass05
This was addressed in the 1988 movie "The Accused", with Jodie Foster.


Thank you Rotten Tomatoes.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870480
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Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.

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I grew up with four sisters. Three of them older. They pretty much made sure I treated girls with respect. They also went out of their way to keep the tramps away from me. Which I did not agree with at all.

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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870486
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870495
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I don't find it offensive but prob not the best quote for a middle school. I think men should be responsible for treating women right regardless of how they act. Not to say its not aggravating when some girl wearing barely any clothes tells you to keep your eyes off her or something like that.

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Any girl that says they don't dress like a slut for attention is lying

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870504
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Last time I checked this was talking about actions and not appearances

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Originally Posted By: Duck_Hunter
Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. You’re roommate is taking the “victim blaming” position. It happens frequently on social media.

Of course it’s not OK to grab a lady’s butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. That’s just reality. That’s not victim blaming, that’s not absolving the butt grabber of his part, that’s just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.

So many people can’t see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything.


^This!

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This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day “thot” ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure.

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I remember coming back home late one night telling my dad how I got into a scuffle in the parking lot at a Whataburger and almost got robbed. His response to me:

"Well Dummy, what did you think was going to happen when you were hanging out in a Whataburger parking lot at midnight?"

If you put yourself in a predictable situation, don't be surprised by the predictable result.


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Originally Posted By: fmrmbmlm
Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.


What church do you attend. (Asking for neighbor)

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Originally Posted By: Duck_Hunter
Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. You’re roommate is taking the “victim blaming” position. It happens frequently on social media.

Of course it’s not OK to grab a lady’s butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. That’s just reality. That’s not victim blaming, that’s not absolving the butt grabber of his part, that’s just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.

So many people can’t see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything.

This is exactly how I see it. I imagine that Ivanka Trump gets a lot less harassment than, say, Stormy Daniels. But my roommate is 40 and has never had her own place or taken care of herself. Men pay all of her bills. She sees herself as a victim because she doesn't have a house or anything of her own to speak of, but won't get a job or an education. She is continually looking for someone to blame without taking responsibility for how her life has turned out.

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Originally Posted By: Nickbyrd
This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day “thot” ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure.


That hoe over there

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Originally Posted By: Nickbyrd
This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day “thot” ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure.


It’s an acronym for That Ho Over There. It is not a compliment.


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Originally Posted By: CrankAddict
Originally Posted By: Duck_Hunter
Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. You’re roommate is taking the “victim blaming” position. It happens frequently on social media.

Of course it’s not OK to grab a lady’s butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. That’s just reality. That’s not victim blaming, that’s not absolving the butt grabber of his part, that’s just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.

So many people can’t see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything.

This is exactly how I see it. I imagine that Ivanka Trump gets a lot less harassment than, say, Stormy Daniels. But my roommate is 40 and has never had her own place or taken care of herself. Men pay all of her bills. She sees herself as a victim because she doesn't have a house or anything of her own to speak of, but won't get a job or an education. She is continually looking for someone to blame without taking responsibility for how her life has turned out.


There are a lot of people like that these days. It’s sickening.


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Behaving like a lady won't always guarantee that men will behave like gentlemen.... so always behave like a lady but also know how to knock a misbehaving boy on his ***.

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Saying a woman is "asking" for it by how she dresses is a shallow excuse made by guys with no self control and trying to explain away their own bad behavior.

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I'm not saying that a woman is asking for it by dressing a certain way. I'm only saying that if you dress that way you can't be surprised when/if it happens. Not everyone behaves the way they should. If you don't want negative attention, then act and dress respectful of yourself and you lessen the chances.

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Can we get a pic of the roommate?


Probably need a pic to really deal with this question.

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Originally Posted By: CrankAddict
I'm not saying that a woman is asking for it by dressing a certain way. I'm only saying that if you dress that way you can't be surprised when/if it happens. Not everyone behaves the way they should. If you don't want negative attention, then act and dress respectful of yourself and you lessen the chances.



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no a$$ smacking until you get permission... dress code does not apply.

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some are trained, some cant be trained, and some need to be put down.



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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: WAWI] #12870661
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Originally Posted By: WAWI
I would just like to go on record that I support women at the club wearing very little.


I can get behind this idea.


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870667
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: elcoyote, esq.] #12870670
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Originally Posted By: elcoyote, esq.
Originally Posted By: WAWI
I would just like to go on record that I support women at the club wearing very little.


I can squeeze the behind on this idea.



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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870675
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I think a more accurate train of thought is, the more you carry yourself in a respectful manner (attire included), the more likely you are to attract respectful and like-minded individuals. I understand the thought behind the posted statement, but it's a little one-sided and probably not meant for 2018.

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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: UGLYSHCTICK] #12870706
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some are trained, some cant be trained, and some need to be put down.


I'm going to assume you are referring to some OTers. Care to elaborate?


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Kinda like seeing a sports car with doors unlocked and keys in ignition. Go ahead and hop in it and take it for a spin and see how that works out for you.

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870736
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: jbcarroll3000] #12870743
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Originally Posted By: jbcarroll3000
I think a more accurate train of thought is, the more you carry yourself in a respectful manner (attire included), the more likely you are to attract respectful and like-minded individuals. I understand the thought behind the posted statement, but it's a little one-sided and probably not meant for 2018.


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12870751
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1st impressions of a person forms your opinion almost immediately. If a person dresses like a thug, regardless if he is one, will make you think he is one. Just like you see a homeless person, or what you perceive is a homeless person, may make you want to avoid them because they might ask you for money. 1st impressions form a good, bad or neutral opinion of that person.

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Reminds me of a joke.

Joe came to work on Monday with a black eye. He said he got behind a fat lady at church, and when they stood up to pray her skirt was stuck up in her crack.
He pulled it out, and she turned around and slugged him in the eye.

Next week he came in with the other eye blackened. He said he took a friend to church, and they were seated behind the same fat lady. When they stood up to pray her dress stuck into her crack once again. His friend reached over and pulled it out. Knowing it would make her mad, Joe reached over and pushed it back in.

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Originally Posted By: fishslime
Reminds me of a joke.

Joe came to work on Monday with a black eye. He said he got behind a fat lady at church, and when they stood up to pray her skirt was stuck up in her crack.
He pulled it out, and she turned around and slugged him in the eye.

Next week he came in with the other eye blackened. He said he took a friend to church, and they were seated behind the same fat lady. When they stood up to pray her dress stuck into her crack once again. His friend reached over and pulled it out. Knowing it would make her mad, Joe reached over and pushed it back in.



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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: UGLYSHCTICK] #12871015
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Originally Posted By: UGLYSHCTICK

all men are dogs....



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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12871055
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: Mark Perry] #12871113
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Originally Posted By: Mark Perry
Kinda like seeing a sports car with doors unlocked and keys in ignition. Go ahead and hop in it and take it for a spin and see how that works out for you.
I like that analogy

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: 1ShotNoKills] #12871114
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This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day “thot” ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure.


That hoe over there
that’s kind of disappointing I thought it was a lot more clever than that

Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12871136
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Interesting thoughts, some educated and some ignorant, IMHO. A wow moment at some responses. I hope some posters never vacation with cultures who go to the beach or pool topless. If so, be careful, especially in Mexico. You’ll see some big ole pretty ones and some pretty ole big ones.

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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: CrankAddict] #12871451
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I came late to the party on this....


I agree that women are targets and ( I have never understood how grabbing a unknown woman’s rear in public brings a person any kind of pleasure to a guy ) women have to deal with this [censored]. I don’t care if they are dressed like hootchies or dressed professionally, the possibility exists they will get groped at some point.

However....to put the shoe on the other foot.....


I can’t count how many times I’ve been grabbed, groped, etc. when I was out at a bar. A guy would be bounced immediately if he ran up, grabbed a women’s chest and squeeled “ omg your chest feels amazing” but girls do this stuff all the time and it’s considered normal and accepted.


Just pointing out the double standard.



Btw....how did this lady end up living with you?

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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: Sawhorse] #12871606
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Originally Posted By: Sawhorse
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Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.


What church do you attend. (Asking for neighbor)
Not in my little church, but in larger ones I've visited, especially weddings.

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It's not as simple as "did she ask for it or are you a gentleman"? There's a range of behavior that nowadays gets called "assault", and I have difficulty understanding it as "assault".

I used to go out dancing a couple time a week. If I met a gal in the club who started dancing with me, and there was enough body contact going on anyways, I never thought it was "inappropriate" to put my hands on her. None of these women were dressed in a "ladylike" manner, and I wasn't being a gentleman. But conversely, I wasn't doing something unwanted either (or maybe they just stuck with me because I was buying their drinks).

On the other hand, grabbing a random woman from behind in a club is not the best way to strike up a conversation with a stranger. Have seen it happen and it may not end well for the grabber.

In other social settings, the more a woman presented herself as a lady, the more I'd behave as a gentleman. It's the difference between being forward and being flirtatious ("what are we doing tonight?" as opposed to "would you like to have a drink later?"). And the more professionally I was dressed, women would generally be more ladylike in response.

Conversely, there have been times (recently in fact!) when I was wearing a suit, dressed and behaving as a gentleman, and approached by women with fairly direct, "unladylike" propositions. Had to turn them down because the redhead would get rather unhappy with me otherwise. (If I were single, I'd likely have said "yes" to some of them).


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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman? [Re: fmrmbmlm] #12871707
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Originally Posted By: fmrmbmlm
Originally Posted By: Sawhorse
Originally Posted By: fmrmbmlm
Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.


What church do you attend. (Asking for neighbor)
Not in my little church, but in larger ones I've visited, especially weddings.


they push the boundaries at ours. My mom would never have let my sisters go out looking like that.


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Originally Posted By: Bigbob_FTW
Originally Posted By: fmrmbmlm
Originally Posted By: Sawhorse
Originally Posted By: fmrmbmlm
Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.


What church do you attend. (Asking for neighbor)
Not in my little church, but in larger ones I've visited, especially weddings.


they push the boundaries at ours. My mom would never have let my sisters go out looking like that.

Man mine too. A couple weekends ago I was sure if we didn’t get out of there soon I was going to burst into flames.

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