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 Re: Whipped
[Re: Indianation65]
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09/26/16 09:46 PM
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RangerBass21
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A bigger question is this...
If you confront her yourself, in front of the both of them while she's beating him down, will you banned from the friendship? Will your buddy succumb to her demands if she gets mad at you?
The answer to the original question is this...she needs to be confronted and have it pointed out to her. Whether he does it, or you, the buddy who sees it, will be of consequence, but the severity is to be determined.
Addendum: In the end, if you see he's stressed out, then by all means, something should be said to confront the issue.
Addendum II: Many people will just tell you to mind your own binessssss...
...------ Ohhh she hates me 
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 09:49 PM
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RangerBass21
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Well it's gotten to the point, we were suppose to go fishing Saturday and Friday I called he didn't answer, Friday night I called no answer, Saturday morning called no answer, then around noon, he was tagged in video by his wife shopping and he was standing there holding clothes she picked out and her laughing saying he's such a good boy
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Re: Whipped
[Re: Tallgrass05]
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09/26/16 10:03 PM
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Metal Man
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Why say anything? It's his marriage. 
 LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT...
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:03 PM
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Well it's gotten to the point, we were suppose to go fishing Saturday and Friday I called he didn't answer, Friday night I called no answer, Saturday morning called no answer, then around noon, he was tagged in video by his wife shopping and he was standing there holding clothes she picked out and her laughing saying he's such a good boy Wow. How long have they been married? That's a marriage that sounds doomed.
Recycle! Become an organ donor! 
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:05 PM
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HasBen
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Stay out of it if you want him to still be your friend. He may not be too crazy about the way you lead your life either but has never said anything. Best to let it lie.
"Nothing spoils a good story like the arrival of an eyewitness."-Mark Twain
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:20 PM
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Dis him and his wife. She will wonder why you aren't around anymore and will encourage outings. You get your friend back, you friend gets to go out, and she isn't known publicly as the b.
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Re: Whipped
[Re: malibu6501]
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09/26/16 10:21 PM
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04champ
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Dis him and his wife. She will wonder why you aren't around anymore and will encourage outings. You get your friend back, you friend gets to go out, and she isn't known publicly as the b. I'm not sure about this. That kind of woman would be happy if her man didn't have any other friends (besides her friends' husbands)
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:24 PM
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Davedave
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Take a dump in his van. He will get the idea.
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:33 PM
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Indianation65
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If you are serious, and this woman does not like you, then there is nothing to lose.
If your buddy will maintain his friendship with you, he should step up and put her in her place, ooooooooooooooooooooor, you do it.
Addendum: If you go into a squabble with her in front of him, and he's tired of her bossiness, he'll eat it up seeing you talk "man" to her.
Good luck.
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:35 PM
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Metal Man
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LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT...
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Re: Whipped
[Re: Indianation65]
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09/26/16 10:36 PM
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04champ
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If you are serious, and this woman does not like you, then there is nothing to lose.
If your buddy will maintain his friendship with you, he should step up and put her in her place, ooooooooooooooooooooor, you do it.
Addendum: If you go into a squabble with her in front of him, and he's tired of her bossiness, he'll eat it up seeing you talk "man" to her.
Good luck.
...------ how long have you been single?
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Re: Whipped
[Re: RangerBass21]
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09/26/16 10:39 PM
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Indianation65
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Never married, not scared of women, and after loads of girlfriends, I've never taken any nonsense from them.
In return, I don't treat women poorly, but in the end, it's all perspective and nobody is perfect.
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Re: Whipped
[Re: 04champ]
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09/26/16 10:42 PM
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Metal Man
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If you are serious, and this woman does not like you, then there is nothing to lose.
If your buddy will maintain his friendship with you, he should step up and put her in her place, ooooooooooooooooooooor, you do it.
Addendum: If you go into a squabble with her in front of him, and he's tired of her bossiness, he'll eat it up seeing you talk "man" to her.
Good luck.
...------ how long have you been single? 
LOVE IT OR LEAVE IT...
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Re: Whipped
[Re: Indianation65]
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09/26/16 11:10 PM
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04champ
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Never married, not scared of women, and after loads of girlfriends, I've never taken any nonsense from them.
In return, I don't treat women poorly, but in the end, it's all perspective and nobody is perfect.
...------ I'm the same way. But treating a friend's wife that way is just going to make his life miserable You can't win in this situation. You can say something to the friend if it really means that much to you, but 99% of the time he's going to side with his wife. As for confronting the wife, unless he is unhappy and you catch him at the right moment, there is no chance he is going to "step up and put her in her place." He's way more likely to put you in your place
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