Some people call it neglect, but i quit changing my trans fluid years ago. I watched people wait and change fluid with high mileage and several went out within a week. My 1996 chevy had 333,000 miles on it , pulling bassboat and trailers weekly, and never had the trans fluid touched and never had a problem. My current 2005 has 180,000 miles and never changed the fluid, with lots of towing. You probably wouldn't have had a problem if you would have just left it alone.
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