Why is it that women get tired of a man so dang fast? My bff finally found a nice guy and has been with him for about 8 months. He was/is way better than any of the other guys she has dated. Anyways she dumps him(makes him decide to stay or go) last night and for the life of me I don't understand. Any thots on why women are stupid like this?

They dont want a "nice" man. They want one that treats them like carp!

Maybe she is after the bad boy type. AKA loser.

Back out of here carefully and slowly, guys. It doesnt take a genius to smell a trap.

did he want a mini fridge?

It's not just a woman thing, men do it all of the time. We all get bored after awhile.

lol...I don't think so but maybe.

Its a beat down Dave

no idea

YEP! Gotta cross the pond and take over the UK!

I get that, but isn't that when you are suppose to spice the relationship up with something...anything.

lol only messin with ya bud

whats that smell?

we should have finished that business a long time ago

It is my firm belief that estrogen is a hormone that attacks brain cells.

Might not be true, but if one believes as I do female behavior is never a mystery. Any conduct, no matter how irrational, can be explained away with a simple...estrogen overload.

They always complain it hurts.

She got bored, women need drama and nice guys usually cant provide enough of it because they got there [censored] together.

So, that's why I stuck with my second wife.....

LOL!!! Good one! That's how I look at the end of a normal work day....

I've heard that.....

People have different priorities. Maybe she doesn't want to be in a long term committed relationship. There's all matter of conscious and sub-conscious reasons why she ended it.

listen to the don, he knows

Too deep for me...

Trust me he gave her a good amount of s**hit. Spent many nights on the phone listening to the crying drama that my girl can't live without.

strange

I agree but all she talks about is getting married and having kids(God help her there)and all that carp.

No....weird. Or wierd.

pee on it

Argh....a talker.

The dude is one lucky man. I can't stand it when she wants to talk about feelings.

When I feel cold, I get a sweater.
When I feel sleepy, I go to bed.
When I feel hungry, I get food.
etc, etc.

What's to talk about? Feelings are pretty much covered. If there is a change, I will let her know.

can you say personality disorder?

When I say I'm thirsty, you dont just get me a glass of water. Yo usympathize with my thirst!

That's just talk. She enjoys the "woe is me" victim's role. If she really wanted to be married, she'd be married. Has she EVER been married?

Remember, most people get what they want.

I love her to death but thats what i'm thinking!!!

hey doc...how do i get mine to dump me?

I think that ones is best left alone

My ex was a manic depressive or whatever they call it. REALLY

She'll never leave you, she feels your power.

My ex was not clinically insane, but she is a proven carrier.

"...I agree but all she talks about is getting married and having kids..."

Let me guess. Her sister is married with kids...or all her good friends are, right?

No she hasn't and I hope she never has kids. She still lives with mom and omg....what a mess

"She still lives with mom ..."

That explains it. Codependent relationship? Mom makes her feel guilty every time a man comes into her life? So, who needs whom? She needs mom, or does mom need her? Or both ?

Some people, and this is very much a feminine trait, don't feel "alive" unless their life is in turmoil. They love crises and it keeps them as the center of attention.

I bet if you talked to your friend's co-workers, they'd tell you about all the krap she stirs up at work.

they may be stupid but they sure are fun....

The happy part of all this is some poor dude got away. Kinda makes you feel all warm inside.

No second thot there!

BOTH

Rite

Then she's a "hit it and forget it" gal....sorry to say.

I guess so

Enough of this drama....is she hot? Post a pic and maybe she will be comforted in her time of need.

To a tee. The morning commute on I 495 up to Tyson's Corner and then on 7 to Leesburg, Va. HAA !!

Nut

In ALL seriousness, she NEEDS to be evaluated to determine what her emotional problems are before she accidentally brings a child into this world. TRUST ME!! My ex just screws with my sons head causee she cant get her chit together.

She was at one time, my size, but now she is about 3 of me. Very sad!

In size or endurance?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

EWWW

Aye !

Tell her show up at the CMT bar in Horseshoe after 11PM one night. But peek in the Oak Creek restaurant on the way. If a handsome older gentleman in Levi's and a white Polo dress shirt isnt there...stop and ask Winston ( big black guy) at the cigar counter where I am. He'll know. I'll make certain she's comforted for hours.

If she's not hot...disregard this message.

Ok... edit. If she's larger than a size 8..forget it...unless she's 6 feet tall.

shes is large and she kicks guys out? hmmmmmm

size

You're kinda quick to throw her under the bus. I'm thinking she may be kinda hot and you don't like the competition.

like size 14 or so

size 14 CAN work fine if she's 5-9 and has large assets.

( I prefer size 2-4, though.)

not throwing her under the bus, just don't get it. you got facebook?

Yep! Pretty face?

Sounds about right.

DEFINITELY need pics!!

26 inch waist?

yes

Please post pics. We'll be kind to her.

no 26 inch waste

she is a pretty girl, just lots a drama

+1

damifino