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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Nickbyrd]
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08/20/18 07:50 PM
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1ShotNoKills
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This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day thot ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure. That hoe over there
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Nickbyrd]
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08/20/18 07:56 PM
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Duck_Hunter
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This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day thot ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure. Its an acronym for That Ho Over There. It is not a compliment.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:57 PM
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Duck_Hunter
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Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. Youre roommate is taking the victim blaming position. It happens frequently on social media.
Of course its not OK to grab a ladys butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. Thats just reality. Thats not victim blaming, thats not absolving the butt grabber of his part, thats just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.
So many people cant see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything. This is exactly how I see it. I imagine that Ivanka Trump gets a lot less harassment than, say, Stormy Daniels. But my roommate is 40 and has never had her own place or taken care of herself. Men pay all of her bills. She sees herself as a victim because she doesn't have a house or anything of her own to speak of, but won't get a job or an education. She is continually looking for someone to blame without taking responsibility for how her life has turned out. There are a lot of people like that these days. Its sickening.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:57 PM
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Kattelyn
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Behaving like a lady won't always guarantee that men will behave like gentlemen.... so always behave like a lady but also know how to knock a misbehaving boy on his ***.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:00 PM
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Can we get a pic of the roommate?
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:00 PM
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Mark Perry
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Saying a woman is "asking" for it by how she dresses is a shallow excuse made by guys with no self control and trying to explain away their own bad behavior.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:12 PM
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I'm not saying that a woman is asking for it by dressing a certain way. I'm only saying that if you dress that way you can't be surprised when/if it happens. Not everyone behaves the way they should. If you don't want negative attention, then act and dress respectful of yourself and you lessen the chances.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: H.Town_paddler]
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08/20/18 08:13 PM
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WAWI
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Can we get a pic of the roommate? Probably need a pic to really deal with this question.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:29 PM
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Tallgrass05
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I'm not saying that a woman is asking for it by dressing a certain way. I'm only saying that if you dress that way you can't be surprised when/if it happens. Not everyone behaves the way they should. If you don't want negative attention, then act and dress respectful of yourself and you lessen the chances.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:30 PM
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UGLYSHCTICK
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no a$$ smacking until you get permission... dress code does not apply.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 08:59 PM
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I live by the saying 'If you treat a woman like a Young Thoroughbred, it's less likely that she will become an Old Nag'. It hasn't worked yet!!!
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: WAWI]
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08/20/18 09:36 PM
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I would just like to go on record that I support women at the club wearing very little. I can get behind this idea.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 09:40 PM
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pics of roomie!
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: elcoyote, esq.]
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08/20/18 09:46 PM
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COFF
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I would just like to go on record that I support women at the club wearing very little. I can squeeze the behind on this idea. #Metoo
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 09:49 PM
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jbcarroll3000
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I think a more accurate train of thought is, the more you carry yourself in a respectful manner (attire included), the more likely you are to attract respectful and like-minded individuals. I understand the thought behind the posted statement, but it's a little one-sided and probably not meant for 2018.
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