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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Jpurdue]
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08/20/18 07:22 PM
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Duck_Hunter
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Nobody ever deserves to be robbed. It's inexcusable. That said, it's a bad idea to go walking through East St. Louis at 2am wearing a bunch of gold jewelry. Bingo. There is a reason doors have locks.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:24 PM
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buda13
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I try not to discriminate.... I'll grab a butt anywhere! The things people take personally and get all worked up about these days is just silly...
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Tallgrass05]
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08/20/18 07:26 PM
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RickS.
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This was addressed in the 1988 movie "The Accused", with Jodie Foster. Thank you Rotten Tomatoes.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:29 PM
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fmrmbmlm
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Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:29 PM
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RickS.
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I grew up with four sisters. Three of them older. They pretty much made sure I treated girls with respect. They also went out of their way to keep the tramps away from me. Which I did not agree with at all.
Last edited by RickS.; 08/20/18 07:31 PM.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:32 PM
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
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08/20/18 07:37 PM
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Jake Shannon(Skeet4Life)
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I don't find it offensive but prob not the best quote for a middle school. I think men should be responsible for treating women right regardless of how they act. Not to say its not aggravating when some girl wearing barely any clothes tells you to keep your eyes off her or something like that.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
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08/20/18 07:37 PM
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Jake Shannon(Skeet4Life)
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Any girl that says they don't dress like a slut for attention is lying
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
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08/20/18 07:40 PM
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Rhino68W
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Last time I checked this was talking about actions and not appearances
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Duck_Hunter]
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08/20/18 07:40 PM
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Sawhorse
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Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. Youre roommate is taking the victim blaming position. It happens frequently on social media.
Of course its not OK to grab a ladys butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. Thats just reality. Thats not victim blaming, thats not absolving the butt grabber of his part, thats just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.
So many people cant see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything. ^This!
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
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08/20/18 07:41 PM
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Nickbyrd
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This brings me to ask a question . I heard a word the other day thot ... what is thot or what is a thot ? I have a good guess based off context clues but still not sure.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
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08/20/18 07:41 PM
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COFF
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I remember coming back home late one night telling my dad how I got into a scuffle in the parking lot at a Whataburger and almost got robbed. His response to me:
"Well Dummy, what did you think was going to happen when you were hanging out in a Whataburger parking lot at midnight?"
If you put yourself in a predictable situation, don't be surprised by the predictable result.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: fmrmbmlm]
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08/20/18 07:41 PM
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Sawhorse
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Why do some women dress so scantily and provocatively then seem to get bent out of shape when they get stared at. I've also seen some women in church that you would think were going to a club with the clothes worn there. What church do you attend. (Asking for neighbor)
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: Duck_Hunter]
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08/20/18 07:46 PM
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Pointing out that there is a higher chance of X happening if you do/wear/go to Y is not victim blaming. Youre roommate is taking the victim blaming position. It happens frequently on social media.
Of course its not OK to grab a ladys butt without consent. If you wear a dress where your butt hangs out and go to a club, there is a higher chance of that happening, though, than if you wear a knee-length dress to church Sunday morning. Thats just reality. Thats not victim blaming, thats not absolving the butt grabber of his part, thats just pointing out that some things are more likely to happen around certain people or certain situations.
So many people cant see the obvious or just love to get outraged by everything. This is exactly how I see it. I imagine that Ivanka Trump gets a lot less harassment than, say, Stormy Daniels. But my roommate is 40 and has never had her own place or taken care of herself. Men pay all of her bills. She sees herself as a victim because she doesn't have a house or anything of her own to speak of, but won't get a job or an education. She is continually looking for someone to blame without taking responsibility for how her life has turned out.
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Re: Did she ask for it or are you not a gentleman?
[Re: CrankAddict]
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08/20/18 07:46 PM
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BrandoA
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I tell my daughter this all the time.
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