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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: rj74955]
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06/21/18 09:14 PM
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Okie Poke
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Never had to go down that route of the big D.....but, my parents divorced when I was 12. I can say that my father, as hard of man as he's been all of his life to me, he never, ever missed any child support payments and always was there for us with any type of support, financially. I respect him for that. He's currently in the hospital here in Tulsa, and that's one reason why I keep feeding him every day. So sorry to hear that brother. Which hospital? What do you need? I think you have my phone number but I'll send it again. If you're staying in a motel you don't have to, I have extra bedrooms 20 minutes from any hospital in Tulsa and a truck you can drive. Thanks, bruh.......you are a great person to have as a friend. I'll reach out if I need anything. God Bless!
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: Moto-Moto]
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06/21/18 09:16 PM
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Okie Poke
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Never had to go down that route of the big D.....but, my parents divorced when I was 12. I can say that my father, as hard of man as he's been all of his life to me, he never, ever missed any child support payments and always was there for us with any type of support, financially. I respect him for that. He's currently in the hospital here in Tulsa, and that's one reason why I keep feeding him every day. Sorry about your dad sir. Thanks.....You are a very responsible and respectful parent. Some things you just gotta do, and if it affects the children in any way, there's no doubt you will always do the right thing. Keep that attitude!
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: redchevy]
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06/21/18 11:30 PM
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Flooringit
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Never been divorced and don't want to be.
In my experience from the people I know it is a completely different ball game when mommy and daddy kinda get along from when momma wants to be a pain in the arse. Lots of guys don't have a choice about paying child support and then end up paying for everything else on top of it because momma doesn't spend the money on the kids anyway. I got no problem at all paying for what my kids need but child support isn't always a choice and from what I have seen is very commonly abused. My kids mom dont pay for anything. She currently receives 1100$ a month for 2 kids she has 2 weeks a month by the court order. Ut she gives them up for somtheing more important all the time. Example month of March I had my son all days except 4 and I paid her support. Still trying to figure out how she used 500$ for 4 days of food ??? Support has become income
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: Moto-Moto]
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06/21/18 11:39 PM
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B_Rod
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: Moto-Moto]
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06/22/18 12:21 AM
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Beer Money
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Cheaper to not have kids.
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: rj74955]
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06/22/18 12:43 AM
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MrRoachie
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Speaking as a little league coach, take your kid to the practice/game if it falls on your day.
This year I have one set of divorced parents who get along better than any divorced couple I've ever seen...they were even in each others weddings. Say what? 1shart....
God loves you just as much as anybody else!!
Jesus offered His life as a gift for you. Please accept it!
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: Moto-Moto]
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06/22/18 04:42 AM
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Coach Hark
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The one thing Ive always taught the athletes Ive coached. The hardest two jobs youll ever have in your life are being a husband and being a dad. I bet Ive taught that and said it well over a couple of thousand times. Ive had kids I coached over 30 years ago tell me that was the best thing Id ever told them and it was the truth. Its a job that requires more work than any paying job will ever require. IMHO
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Re: Divorce with Kids
[Re: Okie Poke]
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06/22/18 03:35 PM
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Moto-Moto
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Never had to go down that route of the big D.....but, my parents divorced when I was 12. I can say that my father, as hard of man as he's been all of his life to me, he never, ever missed any child support payments and always was there for us with any type of support, financially. I respect him for that. He's currently in the hospital here in Tulsa, and that's one reason why I keep feeding him every day. Sorry about your dad sir. Thanks.....You are a very responsible and respectful parent. Some things you just gotta do, and if it affects the children in any way, there's no doubt you will always do the right thing. Keep that attitude! Yes sir. I sure will.
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