I can balance stuff on my nose, i even balanced a step ladder once

My folks tried to turn me into one of those child prodigy kids and mama had me in just about every kind of musical instrument lesson that you can imagine. I played violin, piano, banjo, mandolin, steel guitar, lap guitar, base guitar, and drums. Had a 3.5 octave vocal range with perfect pitch. I can still play just about any stringed instrument you put in my hands except a standard size guitar.. my hands are too small.
Rebelled as soon as I could and while I tinker and I enjoy playing with others, I haven't really done much with it in 20 years. Ex husband used to tease me quite a bit about it so I just let it fall by the wayside.

I used to love to go dancing, but again, ex teased me about it so I stopped.

I can fart on command.

If there was a bar room Olympics with darts, pool, and fooseball, I would win gold for sure. I have some inconsistency in pool, but I own the dart board and food table....

Have you tried singing with a bunch of other musicians/singers in a home jam. That's how I got out of the closet with my guitar. Later started singing in my 50's with my wife harmonizing. Started going to bluegrass festivals and jamming all night long and eventually had our own band. You just have to find a way to ease into it.

Wow, we have to know each other or at least been in some jams together. This is how I got over the stage fright demon. Started at the Garland Square saturday night jams about 12 years ago. It took a long time of just doing it, singing and playing guitar to finally get over the fear and settle into a comfort zone where I actually looked forward to my turn. Finally got a band and a highlight was an auditorium packed with people. It doesn't happen overnight.

We may have as we used to go to the Garland Square. You probably knew Jim Paul Miller too. We may have missed each other as we stopped going regularly about that time.