But here is the big question.
How do I get my wife into fishing. I mean I understand that it aint everyone's thing but there has to be a way to make it enjoyable to her.

That's pretty cool.
I took my four year old fishing in a small neighborhood pond close to the house and he loved it. I didn't even bring my pole, just his. Caught some small bluegill in a matter of minutes and then he wanted to go home, so we did. On the way home he says to me, "lets go again tomorrow." well worth leaving my rod at the house.

My daughter has been fishing with me sine she was 4. We have fished all over the state together fishing for stripers. Over the years what this is what I learned.

1) Make it fun first and foremost
2) In the beginning fish for something easy... bream, whites...its important to catch something
3) Be patient ... Kids will be kids
4) Give them a job of some sort. This makes them feel important and needed
5) Initially Keep it short...and when they want to leave, leave
6) in summer if they want to swim let them swim for a little bit
7) go exploring looking for cool stuff or catch bugs or something
8) Bring plenty of snacks and drinks...hungry thirsty kids are no fun

Bottom line make it all about them. She is now 12 and when were at the ranch she will grab her pole and walked down to the tank by camp house and go to fishing. All on her own and sometimes she ask me to come along. Pretty cool if you ask me.